DreamBuilders Ministry in Motion (DBMIM) Ezine, September 21, 2007

-- Book Review: "They Smell Like Sheep: Leading with the Heart of a Shepherd", by Dr. Lynn Anderson

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Angie closed her laptop as she finished putting the polishing touches on her sermon for next Sunday. She was completing her first year in the Pine Valley Church. As she looked back over the past year, she smiled as she thought of all the wonderful new friendships she had made. She even giggled at some of the humorous events that happened.

Then she sighed heavily. She did not realize ministry leadership would be so hard. She had no illusions that she would usher in the Kingdom all by herself in just a few months, but she pondered if she had made any progress at all. She had spent a whole year in long hours and intense focus, but she would be hard pressed to name one significant accomplishment that had eternal consequence. Moreover, she worried that she was further behind than when she started.

Such is the nature of change and transition. Even in places like Pine Valley, change is radically altering our understanding of ministry. Alan J. Roxburgh and Fred Romanuk (The Missional Leader: Equipping Your Church to Reach a Changing World, Jossey-Bass 2006) explain the difference between continuous and discontinuous change. Change is always happening, but not all change is the same.

Continuous change is an evolutionary, predictable pattern of change. It is like male pattern baldness. If you knew my family tree and my genetic traits, it would not surprise you that I am losing my hair. That is not an uncommon change. It is not sudden or dramatic. It is just happening slowly and surely.L

Discontinuous change would be more like losing my hair because of chemotherapy treatments for cancer. If we did not know about the chemo treatments, we would be surprised by the sudden development. It is radical and unpredictable. It often is the result of outside forces we did not anticipate. We often label these kinds of events a crisis.

In this case, our methods and patterns for coping with change no longer seem effective, because it is very different. We are confused. Long range planning is no longer useful. We did not anticipate the crisis. What do we do?

When a lay volunteer or church leader leaves unexpectedly, it can send a shock wave throughout the entire congregation, especially if your church is small to medium size. It’s a shock to think that Christian workers, especially leaders, could so abruptly leave their work. Who were they dedicated to anyway? Were they hurt in some way? If so, couldn’t they rise above the criticism? Shouldn’t other people’s opinions not matter? Shouldn’t we be so passionate about the Lord’s work that we would make it a priority to stick in there and work out whatever problems exist?

Often people won’t give a reason for why they have left or the reason given seems flimsy at face value. Sometimes a person might leave because they are burned out and the only way to get out of a church responsibility without criticism is to leave. Others leave because they feel a lack of support from their leadership or someone in the church has hurt their feelings. My minister/ husband has heard all too many gut wrenching stories from former members of cruel comments made by staunch church members to newer workers. Others leave because of guilt over their daily lifestyle or shame over family issues. They leave so no one will know their pain.

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I recently attended a meeting with youth workers and pastors. At this meeting we were sharing different stories about what was going on in our churches. One of my friends shared a story that I found so totally crazy I had to share it with you. I had my friend write the story for this month’s rambling. I hope you enjoy.

There are few times in life when one specific situation reveals everything that is wrong with the big picture. This is one of those times.

At my church we have a “newcomers” lunch monthly where anyone who is new or interested in our church is welcome to have lunch with the staff. It is a time to get to know each staff member and the staff members to get to know the interested newcomer. Usually the most exciting part about the lunch is the free pizza.

One Sunday afternoon after church I entered the room, grabbed my pizza, and took my seat. I was enjoying my cheese and pepperoni pizza -- I guess that’s all churches are allowed to order -- when I felt a presence of something behind me. I looked up from my cup of soda halfway expecting to see it shaking like the famous scene from Jurassic Park, because the largest man I have ever seen in my life had just entered the room. The man grabbed his plate of about six pieces of pizza and found a seat next to me.

As the introductions began, each person was encouraged to give their name and why they liked coming to our church. When his turn came, the large man began to speak. He gave his name and then the bomb dropped. He said the reason he liked coming to our church was because he could come to church and never feel challenged to do anything. He said he didn’t feel pressured to change at all.

At this moment the sirens, horns, bells, and whistles started going off in my head and my eyes nearly popped out of my head in astonishment. “What the (insert unpastorly word)” I screamed inside my head. This was everything that was wrong with this man. He didn’t do anything and wanted a church that catered to that need. I looked at the other staff members expecting them to be just as concerned with the statement as I was, but that was precisely when the second bomb dropped. My Senior Pastor quickly responded with a humble thank you to the man. He said that he always tried to have a gentle leadership style that only suggested things to people, but never pushed them to do anything. I could not believe what just happened. This man was just affirmed for his ability to do nothing at all. God then revealed to me that this was not just a reflection of this one man, but of our whole congregation, and quite frankly the church as a whole.

My emotions moved from rage to great concern. Everything that is wrong with our church had just been played out. This man refused to change and repent of his sin, which was obviously gluttony. Our church is harboring many people like him who are looking to avoid any type of transformation and our Pastor is the number one advocate of this spiritual safe house.

Christians need to be challenged, stretched, and broken to become who Jesus wants them to be. But if we continue to never challenge and only gently lead, then we cease to preach the Gospel and therefore cease to see people transformed. We need to recover a Christianity that changes lives and stops people from living a life that screams “God accepts me just as I am.” God does accept us just as we are, but he certainly doesn’t want us to stay that way. God spurs us to change which results in us being closer and closer to Him.

Feel free to contact Scott to agree, disagree or just pick his brain about youth ministry you can contact him at: rscottmiller1@aol.com Scott would love to hear from you!

R. Scott Miller is the Director of Christian Education and Youth at Milford First United Methodist Church in the suburbs of Cincinnati, OH. In his 17 years of youth ministry, Scott has written and developed much of the youth programming used in his churches. Scott has a B.A. in Radio/TV and Journalism from Morehead State University and an M.A. from Asbury Theological Seminary. Scott is the author of 7 Things Christians Don't Do and What To Do Instead by Abingdon Press.

Dr. Lynn Anderson is founder of Hope Network Ministries, an organization that equips church leaders with coaching and mentoring skills. One of her nine books, include the first in the Sheep series, They Smell Like Sheep: Spiritual Leadership for the 21^st Century. And Leading with the Heart of a Shepherd picks up where the first book left off.

Anderson uses a unique plant analogy to describe the differences between leaders in the church, by drawing a distinction between Banyan Tree Leaders and Mesquite Bush Leaders. A Banyan tree’s thick foliage prevents anything from growing underneath them. Mesquite bushes, on the other hand, drop seeds that scatter and grow a multitude of mesquite bushes. Rare stand-alone leaders, such as Billy Graham and Rick Warren, are Banyan Tree Leaders, but most leaders fall into the Mesquite Bush Leader category. The are servant leaders—like Jesus--getting dirty along with their sheep and inspiring and mentoring others to become leaders for Christ.

They Smell Like Sheep, Volume 2 is written for Mesquite Bush Leaders as a guide and to provide encouragement. Anderson gained insight through interviews with more than 200 key church leaders across the U. S. and Canada.

She divides the book into sections: A Heart for God, A Heart of Integrity, A Heart for People, The Heart of a Servant, A Heart that Moves at a Measured Pace, and A Heart Flooded with Hope. Rather than give highlights of the entire book, I felt it best to focus on areas that I found to be particularly beneficial to our readers.

Every chapter has a Cardiovascular Workout for Shepherds’ Hearts with an interactive question or quiz that readers can complete to gauge how they are doing. One particular Cardiovascular Workout quizzes shepherds on gospel and cultural practices.

Anderson lists 55 practices and commands that appear in the New Testament and polls us on whether they are meant to be gospel (commands or precedents God issues for all peoples and cultures) or whether they are cultural (commands or practices present among God’s people but not by God’s universal command). The exercise is intended to help leaders gain a new perspective on the core essentials in New Testament Christianity.

Chapter five covers the importance of integrity in leadership and emphasizes just how crucial it is to be an excellent role model. People are watching us and will come to faith through stages. If we don’t show integrity and authenticity as spiritual leaders, we may lose their trust and block or stunt their faith growth. Of particular interest is Anderson’s expansion and diagrams based on John Westerhoff’s theory of how people come to faith.

Another unique topic covered is providing encouragement to aging leaders. Chapter 16 discusses moving from warrior to lamp. When we reach a place in ministry where we are no longer able to keep up with the physical demands of shepherding, Anderson encourages us to remain steadfast, shining our lights and using our wisdom to mentor and encourage other leaders. In a society that values youth and tends to devalue the aged, these words of encouragement are badly needed.

Though you may have many leadership books on your shelves and might have already read They Smell Like Sheep Volume One, this second edition still provides fresh insights and encouragement every leader needs to hear.

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